Watch the Stupid Spending
As mother always told me, money most definitely does not grow on trees. Neither does it grow on ferns, shrubs or cactus. After moving down to part time to become a better parent and partner, I have way less disposable income. Being broke ass sucks, but not having money for the things that matter is worse. Things that once struck me as necessary are now moved in to the "do you really need that at this moment?" column. I work in a restaurant and the wife buys a lot of groceries, so going out to eat frequently needs to go. Also, my son doesn't need a brand new shiny toy each and every time I come home. Considering his new favorite is a bar of Irish Spring, I don't think I need to add to the pile of unused toys. I need to learn how to splurge on myself and the others around me in moderation and not feel like life is a constant popularity contest. I have more than enough ways to have fun without wasting cash, and that is my newest goal.
